विवाह संस्कार
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Vivah Sanskar
vivah sanskar hindoo dharm sanskaroan mean 'trayodash sanskar' hai. snatakottar jivan vivah ka samay hota hai, arthath vidyadhyayan ke pashchath vivah karake grihasthashram mean pravesh karana hota hai. yah sanskar pitri rrin se urrin hone ke lie kiya jata hai. manushy janm se hi tin rrinoan se bandhakar janm leta hai- 'dev rrin', 'rrishi rrin' aur 'pitri rrin'. inamean se agrihotr arthat yajnadik karyoan se dev rrin, vedadik shastroan ke adhyayan se rrishi rrin aur vivahit patni se putrotpatti adi ke dvara pitri rrin se urrin hua jata hai.
pramukh sanskar
hindoo dharm mean vivah ko solah sanskaroan mean se ek sanskar mana gaya hai. vivah do shabdoan se milakar bana hai- vi + vah. at: isaka shabdik arth hai- "vishesh roop se (uttaradayitv ka) vahan karana". 'panigrahan sanskar' ko samany roop se 'hindoo vivah' ke nam se jana jata hai. any dharmoan mean vivah pati aur patni ke bich ek prakar ka karar hota hai, jise vishesh paristhitiyoan mean to da bhi ja sakata hai. parantu hindoo vivah pati aur patni ke bich janm-janmaantaroan ka sambandh hota hai, jise kisi bhi paristhiti mean nahian to da ja sakata. agni ke sat phere lekar aur dhruv tare ko sakshi man kar do tan, man tatha atma ek pavitr bandhan mean bandh jate haian. hindoo vivah mean pati aur patni ke bich sharirik sambandh se adhik atmik sambandh hota hai aur is sambandh ko atyant pavitr mana gaya hai.
uddeshy
shruti ka vachan hai- do sharir, do man aur buddhi, do hriday, do pran v do atmaoan ka samanvay karake agadh prem ke vrat ko palan karane vale danpati uma-maheshvar ke premadarsh ko dharan karate haian, yahi vivah ka svaroop hai. hindoo sanskriti mean vivah kabhi na tootane vala ek param pavitr dharmik sanskar hai, yajn hai. vivah mean do prani (var-vadhoo) apane alag astitvoan ko samapt kar, ek sammilit ikaee ka nirman karate haian aur ek-doosare ko apani yogyataoan evan bhavanaoan ka labh pahuanchate hue ga di mean lage do pahiyoan ki tarah pragati path par badhate haian. yani vivah do atmaoan ka pavitr bandhan hai, jisaka uddeshy matr iandriy-sukhabhog nahi, balki putrotpadan, santanotpadan kar ek parivar ki nianv dalana hai.[1]
vivah pranali
thumb|200px|vivah sanskar srishti ke aranbh mean vivah jaisi koee pratha nahian thi. koee bhi purush kisi bhi stri se yaun-sanbadh banakar santan utpann kar sakata tha. pita ka jnan n hone se matripaksh ko hi pradhanata thi tatha santan ka parichay mata se hi diya jata tha. yah vyavastha vaidik kal tak chalati rahi. is vyavastha ko paravarti[2] kal mean rrishiyoan ne chunauti di tatha ise pashavik sanbadh manate hue naye vaivahik niyam banae. rrishi shvetaketu ka ek sandarbh vaidik sahity mean aya hai ki unhoanne maryada ki raksha ke lie vivah pranali ki sthapana ki aur tabhi se kutuanb-vyavastha ka shri ganesh hua. ajakal bahuprachalit aur vedamantroan dvara sanpann hone vale vivahoan ko 'brahmavivah' kahate haian. is vivah ki dharmik mahatta manu ne is prakar likhi hai -
dash poorvaannh paranvanshyanh atmanan chaikavianshakamh.
brahmiputrah sukritakrinh mochaye denasah pitrinh..[1]
arthat 'brahmavivah' se utpann putr apane kul ki 21 pidhiyoan ko pap mukt karata hai- 10 apane age ki, 10 apane se pichhe aur ek svayan apani. bhavishyapuran mean likha hai ki jo ladaki ko alankrit kar brahmavidhi se vivah karate haian, ve nishchay hi apane sat poorvajoan aur sat vanshajoan ko narakabhog se bacha lete haian.
ashvalayan ne to yahaan tak likha hai ki is vivah vidhi se utpann putr barah poorvajoan aur barah avaranoan[3] ko pavitr karata hai -
tasyaan jato ddhadashavaranh ddhadash poorvanh punati.[1]
bharatiy-sanskriti mean anek prakar ke vivah prachalit rahe hai. manusmriti[4] ke anusar vivah-brahm, dev, arsh, prajapaty, asur, gandharv, rakshas aur paishach 8 prakar ke hote haian. unamean se pratham 4 shreshth aur aantim 4 kramashah nikrisht mane jate haian. vivah ke labhoan mean yaunatripti, vanshavriddhi, maitrilabh, sahachary sukh, manasik rup se paripakvata, dirghayu, sharirik aur manasik svasthy ki prapti pramukh hai. isake alava samasyaoan se joojhane ki shakti aur pragadh prem sanbadh se parivar mean sukh-shaanti milati hai. is prakar vivah-sanskar sare samaj ke ek suvyavasthit tantr ka stambh hai.
hindoo vivah bhogalipsa ka sadhan nahian, ek dharmik-sanskar hai. sanskar se aantahshuddhi hoti hai aur shuddh aantahkaran mean tattvajnan v bhagavataprem utpann hota hai, jo jivan ka charam evan param purusharth hai. manushy ke oopar devrrin, rrishirrin evan pitrirrin - ye tin rrin hote haian. yajn-yagadi se devrrin, svadhyay se rrishigan tatha vivah karake pitaroan ke shraddh-tarpan ke yogy dharmik evan sadachari putr utpann karake pitrirrin ka parishodhan hota hai. is prakar pitaroan ki seva tatha sadadharm ka palan karane ki paranpara surakshit rakhane ke lie santan utpann karana vivah ka param uddeshy hai. yahi karan hai ki hindoo dharm mean vivah ko ek pavitr-sanskar ke roop mean manyata di gayi hai.[1]
udvah
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- vivah ka shabdik arth hai 'uthakar le jana', kyoanki vivah ke aantargat kanya ko usake pita ke ghar se pati ke ghar le jaya jata hai, isalie is kriya ko 'udvah' kaha jata hai.
- ek stri ko patni banakar svikar karane ko 'udvah' kahate haian.
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sanbandhit lekh
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varnamala kramanusar lekh khoj
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