विवाह संस्कार

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Vivah Sanskar

• hindoo dharm sanskaroan mean vivah sanskar trayodash sanskar hai. snatakottar jivan, vivah ka samay hota hai, arthath vidyadhyayan ke pashchat vivah karake grihasthashram mean pravesh karana hota hai. yah sanskar pitri-rrin se urrin hone ke lie kiya jata hai. manushy janm se hi tin rrinoan se banakar janm leta hai. dev-rrin, rrishi rrin aur pitri rrin. inamean se agrihotr arthat yajnadik karyoan se dev-rrin. vedadik shastroan ke adhyayan se rrishi-rrin. vivahit patni se putrotpatti adi ke dvara pitri-rrin se urrin hua jata hai.

shruti ka vachan hai - do sharir, do man aur buddhi, do haday, do pran v do atmaoan ka samanvay karake agadh prem ke vrat ko palan karane vale danpati uma-maheshvar ke premadarsh ko dharan karate hai, yahi vivah ka svarup hai|

hindoo-sanskriti mean vivah kabhi na tootane vala ek param pavitr dharmik sanskar hai, yajn hai| vivah mean do prani (var-vadhu) apane alag astitvoan ko samapt kar ek sammilit ikaee ka nirman karate hai aur ek-doosare ko apani yogyataoan evan bhavanaoan ka labh pahuanchate hue gadi mean lage do pahiyoan ki tarah pragati path par badhate hai| yani vivah do atmaoan ka pavitr bandhan hai, jisaka uddeshy matr iandriy-sukhabhog nahi, balki putrotpadan, santanotpadan kar ek parivar ki nianv dalana hai|

srishti ke aranbh mean vivah jaisi koee pratha nahian thi| koee bhi purush kisi bhi stri se yaun-sanbadh banakar santan utpann kar sakata tha| pita ka jnan n hone se matripaksh ko hi pradhanata thi tatha santan ka parichay mata se hi diya jata tha| yah vyavastha vaidikakal tak chalati rahi| is vyavastha ko paravarti (bad ke) rrishiyoan ne chunauti di tatha ise pashavik sanbadh manate hue naye vaivahik niyam banae|

rrishi shvetaketu ka ek sandarbh vaidik sahity mean aya hai ki unhoanne maryada ki raksha ke lie vivah pranali ki sthapana ki aur tabhi se kutuanb-vyavastha ka shri ganesh hua|

ajakal bahuprachalit aur vedamantroan ddhara sanpann hone vale vivahoan ko brahmavivah kahate hai| is vivah dharmik mahtta manu ne is prakar likhi hai -

dash poorvaannh paranvanshyanh atmanan chaikavianshakamh|
brahmiputrah sukritakrinh mochaye denasah pitrinh||

arthat brahmavivah se utpann putr apane kul ki 21 pidhiyoan ko pap mukt karata hai - 10 apane age ke, 10 apane se pichhe aur ek svayan apani|

bhavishyapuran mean likha hai ki jo ladaki ko alankrit kar brahmavidhi se vivah karate hai, ve nishchy hi apane sat poorvajoan aur sat vanshajoan ko narakabhog se bacha lete hai|

ashvalayan ne to yahaan tak likha hai ki is vivah vidhi se utpann putr barah poorvajoan aur barah avaranoan ko pavitr karata hai -

tasyaan jato ddhadashavaranh ddhadash poorvanh punati|

bharatiy-sanskriti mean anek prakar ke vivah prachalit rahe hai| manusmriti 3/21 ke anusar vivah-brahm, dev, arsh, prajapaty, asur, gandharv, rakshas aur paishach 8 prakar ke hote hai| unamean se pratham 4 shreshth aur aantim 4 kramashah nikrisht mane jate hai|

vivah ke labhoan mean yaunatripti, vanshavriddhi, maitrilabh, sahachary sukh, manasik rup se paripakvata, dirghayu, sharirik aur manasik svasthy ki prapti pramukh hai| isake alava samasyaoan se joojhane ki shakti aur pragadh premasanbadh se parivar mean sukh-shaanti milati hai| is prakar dekhean, to jnat hoga ki vivah-sanskar sare samaj ke ek suvyavasthit tantr ka merudand merudandh hai|

hindu-vivah bhogalipsa ka sadhan nahian, ek dharmik-sanskar hai| sanskar se aantahshuddhi hoti hai aur shuddh aantahkaran mean tattvajnan v bhagavatprem utpann hota hai, jo jivan ka charam evan param purusharth hai|

manushy ke oopar devrrin, rrishirrin evan pitrirrin - ye tin rrin hote hai| yajn-yagadi se devrrin, svadhyay se rrishigan tatha vivah karake pitaroan ke shraddh-tarpan ke yogy dharmik evan sadachari putr utpann karake pitrirrin ka parishodhan hota hai| is prakar pitaroan ki seva tatha sadadharm ka palan ki paranpara surakshit rakhane ke lie santan utpann karana vivah ka param uddeshy hai| yahi karan hai ki hiandudharm mean vivah ki ek pavitr-sanskar ke rup mean manyata di gayi hai|

udvah

mukhy lekh : udvah

• vivah ka shabdik arth hai 'uthakar le jana'. kyoanki vivah ke aantargat kanya ko usake pita ke ghar se patigrih ko utha le jate haian, isalie is kriya ko 'udvah' kaha jata hai.
• ek stri ko patni banakar svikar karane ko udvah kahate hai.

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