हिंदू विवाह में सात फेरे और सात वचन

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hiandoo vivah sanskar

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thumb|300px|hiandoo vivah mean sat phere aur sat vachan vaidik sanskriti ke anusar solah sanskaroan ko jivan ke sabase mahattvapoorn sanskar mane jate haian. vivah sanskar unhian mean se ek hai jisake bina manav jivan poorn nahian ho sakata. hiandoo dharm mean vivah sanskar ko solah sanskaroan mean se ek sanskar mana gaya hai.

shabdik arth

vivah = vi + vah, at: isaka shabdik arth hai - vishesh roop se (uttaradayitv ka) vahan karana. panigrahan sanskar ko samany roop se hiandoo vivah ke nam se jana jata hai. any dharmoan mean vivah pati aur patni ke bich ek prakar ka karar hota hai jise ki vishesh paristhitiyoan mean to da bhi ja sakata hai, parantu hiandoo vivah pati aur patni ke bich janm-janmaantaroan ka sambandh hota hai jise kisi bhi paristhiti mean nahian to da ja sakata. agni ke sat phere lekar aur dhruv tara ko sakshi man kar do tan, man tatha atma ek pavitr bandhan mean bandh jate haian. hiandoo vivah mean pati aur patni ke bich sharirik sanmbandh se adhik atmik sanmbandh hota hai aur is sanmbandh ko atyant pavitr mana gaya hai.

sat phere aur sat vachan

vivah ek aisa mauqa hota hai jab do iansano ke sath-sath do parivaroan ka jivan bhi poori tarah badal jata hai. bharatiy vivah mean vivah ki paranparaoan mean sat pheroan ka bhi ek chalan hai. jo sabase mukhy rasm hoti hai. hindoo dharm ke anusar sat pheroan ke bad hi shadi ki rasm poorn hoti hai. sat pheroan mean doolha v dulhan donoan se sat vachan lie jate haian. yah sat phere hi pati-patni ke rishte ko sat janmoan tak baandhate haian. hiandoo vivah sanskar ke aantargat var-vadhoo agni ko sakshi manakar isake charoan or ghoomakar pati-patni ke roop mean ek sath sukh se jivan bitane ke lie pran karate haian aur isi prakriya mean donoan sat phere lete haian, jise saptapadi bhi kaha jata hai. aur yah satoan phere ya pad sat vachan ke sath lie jate haian. har phere ka ek vachan hota hai, jise pati-patni jivanabhar sath nibhane ka vada karate haian. yah sat phere hi hindoo vivah ki sthirata ka mukhy stanbh hote haian.

sat pheroan ke sat vachan

vivah ke bad kanya var ke vam aang mean baithane se poorv usase sat vachan leti hai. kanya dvara var se lie jane vale sat vachan is prakar hai.

pratham vachan

tirthavratodyapan yajnakarm maya sahaiv priyavayan kurya:,
vamaangamayami tada tvadiyan braviti vakyan prathaman kumari !!

(yahaan kanya var se kahati hai ki yadi ap kabhi tirthayatra ko jao to mujhe bhi apane sang lekar jana. koee vrat-upavas athava any dharm kary ap karean to aj ki bhaanti hi mujhe apane vam bhag mean avashy sthan dean. yadi ap ise svikar karate haian to maian apake vamaang mean ana svikar karati hooan.)

kisi bhi prakar ke dharmik krihtyoan ki poornata hetu pati ke sath patni ka hona anivary mana gaya hai. jis dharmanushthan ko pati-patni mil kar karate haian, vahi sukhad phaladayak hota hai. patni dvara is vachan ke madhyam se dharmik karyoan mean patni ki sahabhagita, usake mahatv ko spasht kiya gaya hai.

dvitiy vachan

pujyau yatha svau pitarau mamapi tatheshabhakto nijakarm kurya:,
vamaangamayami tada tvadiyan braviti kanya vachanan dvitiyam !!

(kanya var se doosara vachan maangati hai ki jis prakar ap apane mata-pita ka samman karate haian, usi prakar mere mata-pita ka bhi samman karean tatha kutumb ki maryada ke anusar dharmanushthan karate hue eeshvar bhakt bane rahean to maian apake vamaang mean ana svikar karati hooan.)

yahaan is vachan ke dvara kanya ki dooradrishti ka abhas hota hai. aj samay aur logoan ki soch kuchh is prakar ki ho chuki hai ki amooman dekhane ko milata hai--grihasth mean kisi bhi prakar ke apasi vad-vivad ki sthiti utpannahone par pati apani patni ke parivar se ya to sambandh kam kar deta hai athava samapt kar deta hai. uparokt vachan ko dhyan mean rakhate hue var ko apane sasural paksh ke sath sadavyavahar ke lie avashy vichar karana chahie.

tritiy vachan

jivanam avasthatraye mam palanaan kuryat,
vamaanganyami tada tvadiyan braviti kanya vachanan trihtiyan !!

(tisare vachan mean kanya kahati hai ki ap mujhe ye vachan dean ki ap jivan ki tinoan avasthaoan (yuvavastha, praudhavastha, vriddhavastha) mean mera palan karate raheange, to hi maian apake vamaang mean ane ko taiyar hooan.)

chaturth vachan

kutumbasanpalanasarvakary kartu pratijnaan yadi katan kurya:,
vamaangamayami tada tvadiyan braviti kanya vachanan chaturthan !!

(kanya chautha vachan ye maangati hai ki ab tak ap ghar-parivar ki chinta se poornat: mukt the. ab jabaki ap vivah bandhan mean bandhane ja rahe haian to bhavishy mean parivar ki samast avashyakataoan ki poorti ka dayitv apake kandhoan par hai. yadi ap is bhar ko vahan karane ki pratijna karean to hi maian apake vamaang mean a sakati hooan.)

is vachan mean kanya var ko bhavishy mean usake utaradayitvoan ke prati dhyan akrihsht karati hai. vivah pashchath kutumb paushan hetu paryapt dhan ki avashyakata hoti hai. ab yadi pati poori tarah se dhan ke vishay mean pita par hi ashrit rahe to aisi sthiti mean grihasthi bhala kaise chal paegi. isalie kanya chahati hai ki pati poorn roop se atmanirbhar hokar arthik roop se parivarik avashyakataoan ki poorti mean saksham ho sake. is vachan dvara yah bhi spasht kiya gaya hai ki putr ka vivah tabhi karana chahie jab vo apane pairoan par khada ho, paryapt matra mean dhanarjan karane lage.

pancham vachan

svasadyakarye vyavaharakarmanye vyaye mamapi mantrayetha,
vamaangamayami tada tvadiyan broote vach: panchamatr kanya !!

(is vachan mean kanya jo kahati hai vo aj ke paripeksh mean atyant mahatv rakhata hai. vo kahati hai ki apane ghar ke karyoan mean, vivahadi, len-den athava any kisi hetu kharch karate samay yadi ap meri bhi mantrana liya karean to maian apake vamaang mean ana svikar karati hooan.)

yah vachan poori tarah se patni ke adhikaroan ko rekhaankit karata hai. bahut se vyakti kisi bhi prakar ke kary mean patni se salah karana avashyak nahian samajhate. ab yadi kisi bhi kary ko karane se poorv patni se mantrana kar li jae to isase patni ka samman to badhata hi hai, sath sath apane adhikaroan ke prati santushti ka bhi abhas hota hai.

shashtham vachanah

n mepamanaman savidhe sakhinaan dyootan n va durvyasanan bhanjashchet,
vamamgamayami tada tvadiyan braviti kanya vachanan ch shashtham !!

(kanya kahati hai ki yadi maian apani sakhiyoan athava any striyoan ke bich baithi hooan tab ap vahaan sabake sammukh kisi bhi karan se mera apaman nahian kareange. yadi ap jua athava any kisi bhi prakar ke durvyasan se apane ap ko door rakhean to hi maian apake vamaang mean ana svikar karati hooan.)

vartaman paripekshy mean is vachan mean gambhir arth samahit haian. vivah pashchath kuchh purushoan ka vyavahar badalane lagata hai. ve jara jara si bat par sabake samane patni ko daant-dapat dete haian. aise vyavahar se patni ka man kitana ahat hota hoga. yahaan patni chahati hai ki beshak ekaant mean pati use jaisa chahe daante kintu sabake samane usake samman ki raksha ki jae, sath hi vo kinhian durvyasanoan mean phansakar apane grihhasth jivan ko nasht n kar le.

saptam vachanah

parastriyan matrisamaan samikshy snehan sada chenmayi kant kurya,
vamaangamayami tada tvadiyan broote vach: saptamamatr kanya !!

(antim vachan ke roop mean kanya ye var maangati hai ki ap paraee striyoan ko mata ke saman samajheangean aur pati-patni ke apasi prem ke madhy any kisi ko bhagidar n banaeangean. yadi ap yah vachan mujhe dean to hi maian apake vamaang mean ana svikar karati hooan.)

vivah pashchath yadi vyakti kisi bahy stri ke akarshan mean bandh pagabhrasht ho jae to usaki pariniti kya hoti hai. isalie is vachan ke madhyam se kanya apane bhavishy ko surakshit rakhane ka prayas karati hai.

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